Tuesday, 18 September 2012
I guess, if anything, it's about taking chances, even when you think you're all out of chances. It's about giving forgiveness and unconditional love, even when it seems like you should only do the opposite. It's about trusting that God puts people in your life at certain moments so that you can capitalize the opportunity. It's all about the possibility. It's all about what you do with those possibilities. Life is short, but it moves so fast. Hang on and enjoy the ride. And when someone comes along with whom you enjoy spending the ride with, hold on tight.
Distance between two hearts is not an obstacle; rather a beautiful reminder of just how strong true love can be.
One day when you're happy with your life and just enjoying it, you'll get an unexpected text. maybe by this time you've already forgotten his number, maybe not. and it'll be him, wanting to "talk". wait, hold up. remember all those tears you shed, while he shed none. remember those corny pick up lines, remember the hurt. look at how happy you are now. yeah, that's what i thought. don't answer that text.
When a person cannot answer directly to your question, probably the answer is too painful for you to know or too hard for them to admit.
To get up in the morning only to know that you have to face another obstacle takes strength. To smile when the only thing you can do is cry takes bravery. To act happy and laugh when you know that times are at their worst takes courage. To be joyous when the only good news is the best of the bad news takes support. To be there and help others through the roughest times in life takes love.
"I'm always the person to make plans with other people, I feel that I'm always an option to someone and never a priority."
Why do we keep them? Under our beds, in the attic, in the back of some drawer. We could have thrown them out a thousand times, and yet, there they are. Old love letters, written to a person we no longer are, by a hand we no longer hold.
Sometimes life sucks. Sometimes people who you think you can rely on, let you down. Sometimes the things that you do turn around and bite you on the ass. Sometimes, you just wanna give up. But then there are those people who pick you up again, and help you see that, sometimes, life doesn't have to suck.
Let me just put it all on the line...I'm no good at opening up, and I maybe too good at being honest. I sometimes get angry for dumb reasons, and there are days I will desperately need your attention. I will want your lips on me constantly. I change my mind, I shut down, I fuck up sometimes, really badly. Just remember, I want you. I want to be with you, to live our lives, together.
It sucks remembering all you had with that one person. It’s like you try so hard to get over them but you have so many memories to hold you back from forgetting them.
You have more dick in your personality than you have in your pants.
The middle finger speaks for itself, but some people aren't
even worth the little bit of energy it takes to raise it.
He's gonna be so sorry he lost you, so stop worrying. Forget the past, forget the pain, and remember what an incredible woman you are. When you do that, is when he realize what he's lost.
Once in my life, I met someone whom I loved and cared for. I gave everything, I fought for him. But one thing I forgot to do is to ask if he wanted me to.
The hardest part about letting go,
is finally realizing that there wasn't much left to hold on to.
Tell me you've had trouble sleeping. That you toss and turn from side to side. That it's my face you've been seeing in your dreams at night. Tell me that you wake up crying, and you're not sure exactly why. Tell me that something is missing in your life. Tell me that it's not just me.
I'm in one of those moods that nothing is really wrong in my life, but my brain keeps on insisting that there is. Or maybe it's my heart that's doing the insisting. I can't really tell. You know that feeling?
Guys think of you as a video game. They play you and keep beating levels, but if they get mad at the game, they yell and scream at it, then eventually turn it off if it isn't going their way. And when they finally finish the game and beat the last level, they get bored and don't want to play the game anymore because there's nothing new left to do, nothing new to learn. Guys don't like a game that's easy to beat, they want a challenge, just one that's not hard enough to run down their ego.
The sad thing is, we
didn't even have to be together for you to hurt me.
It's hard to trust someone,
especially when the ones you trusted the most
were the ones that betrayed you.
I like those good conversations where you start at one topic, and with not even knowing it, you're on another. Where there are no awkward silences, trying to think of something to say. Just conversations filled with laughs and jokes, and a little bit of teasing. The ones that seem endless.
A boy gave a challenge to his girlfriend to live a day without him. No communications at all and he said that if she passed it, he'll love her forever. The girl agreed. She didn't text or call him the whole day, without knowing that her boyfriend had only 24 hours to live because he's suffering from cancer. She excitedly went to her boyfriend's house the next day. Tears fell as she saw her boyfriend lying on the coffin with a note on the side saying, "You did it, baby. Now, can you please do it everyday? Iloveyou."
i can't explain this feeling for you, but i guess i can try. it's like i've waited for this one thing my whole life, and it's suddenly right in front of me. i know you sometimes doubt how you feel for me, and sometimes i doubt how i feel for you, but then there are times, stupid times, like when we're posing for a picture, or im ...sitting in your car, or when we're walking together and we brush against each other, and i know without a question that you're feeling the same way i am. and those moments, however few or far between, make everything we go through worth it. what can i say? somewhere in these past few months, i've fallen in love.
I feel sometimes, that nobody's held me down and forced me to cry or made me hug them, or got to the inside of me. It's like I say "Oh I'm fine" and I walk away. Nobody's ever said "No you're not."
You are wise, you are warm, you are courageous. You are big and I love you more now than I ever have in my whole life
BUT THE HARDEST PART OF LETTING GO IS TRYING TO FIND A WAY TO LET YOU KNOW.
I'm here not because I am supposd to be here or because I'm trapped here, but because I'd rather be with you than anywhere else in the world.
I would love to meet people that have their mind straight and don't bring any problems into my life. I want to meet more people that think about the same things I do. Most of all, I want to meet more people with good hearts and good brains.
You have options. You can either continue to be miserable or you can just stop being angry at everyone and accept the way things are. Allow yourself to live.
I just want you to know I found a reason for me to change who I used to be, a reason to start over new. And the reason is you.
You want to know what I like most? Waking up beside you. There's no greater pleasure then just sleeping in the same bed, you holding me in your arms. That's what I want. That's what I look forward to most.
Day 1: Your Favorite song. Day 2: Your favorite movie. Day 3: Your favorite television program. Day 4: Your favorite quote. Day 5: Your favorite book.Day 6: Your favorite music video. Day 7: A photo that makes you happy. Day 8: Describe the style you had 10 years ago. Day 9: A photo you took. Day 10: Talk about a regret you have. Day 11: Share a story from your childhood. Day 12: Explain how you got one of you scars. Day 13: How do you think other's view you? Day 14: Talk about the cuteness of your pets. Day 15: A poem you wrote. Day 16: A song that makes you cry. Day 17: An art piece that fascinates you. Say 18: Your best friend. Day 19: A talent you possess. Day 20: A hobby of yours. Day 21: A recipe you've been dying to try. Day 22: Your deepest fear. Day 23: Write a love letter to yourself. Day 24: Reveal your most guilty pleasure. Day 25: Talk about a tattoo you have, want, or why you would never get one. Day 26: Talk about your last 'Random act of Kindness" you encountered. Day 27: The last thing that made you cry. Day 28: Say something to your 15 year old self. Day 29: Hopes, dreams and plans for the next 365 days. Day 30: Share what you have learned about yourself in the last 30 days.
This is a photo I made yesterday, as some of you may know.. i've lost 30 kg in less than six months. I bought this pants December last year, when i just lost that weight. Yesterday i wanted to wear that same pants but it was way to big again! So i'm proud now (: